" 'Mike and Molly' - A Fat Look"

Something's been bothering me, so I thought I'd write about it.  It's about the show "Mike and Molly."  I just started watching it, not because the main characters are fat, but because I was bored and thought I'd check it out.
It's actually pretty funny, in my opinion, and this surprised me as most shows on TV these days don't even give me a chuckle.
What irks me is the controversy surrounding the main characters being overweight or fat (not a bad word).  I don't believe there should be a controversy, and I don't believe their being fat promotes being fat!
I am fat.  I don't like it, but I'm not ashamed of it.  Being fat doesn't make me ugly or pretty; it doesn't make me happy or sad; it doesn't make me wrong or right.  It is what it is - I have a weight problem.
I do believe if the main character of this show was a man and fat it would be okay, but the main, female character is also fat, and that is the problem people are having.  Case in point is that other shows or movies with fat, male leads have been widely accepted.
Some of my favorite comedians and actors are male, overweight, self-depracating men -- like John Candy, Chris Farley, and Kevin James.  They too, like me, have or have had a weight problem (yes, it is a problem), and yet they are funny.
Being overweight isn't a choice - you don't wake up one day and say, "I think I want to get fat today."  But unhealthy choices often lead to this unhealthy condition.
I lost 115 plus pounds in a little over a year several years back, and I thought I conquered my problem.  I was slowly gaining weight back when I got pregnant with the twins.  At five months pregnant I was hospitalized at Vanderbilt in Nashville for two and a half months.  I couldn't get up except to go to the bathroom or take a shower.
The funny thing is that I had a world-famous "preemie" doctor caring for me.  The man was probably in his upper 50s or lower 60s.  I thought his hair looked like he had two horns on his head, lol.  He was so crass toward me, and was missing the edit button between his brain and mouth.
One day he came in and said, "You're getting fatter everyday."  Because of my unborn babies I kept my mouth shut.  But I wanted to say, "Yeah, and you're getting older and more bitter everyday."
So I guess what I'm saying is why knock people when they're down?  What good does it do?  Why not love people where they are?  Some one doesn't need to point out someone else's problems.  Most people aren't stupid.  But if someone's delusional you're not going to change their minds anyway.
I will continue to watch "Mike and Molly" because it's funny, until I get bored or if it gets taken off the air.  If you don't like watching fat people then don't watch it.  But if you're open to humor and bored it's kind of funny to me.
Thanks for listening to my rant.  And pray I lose weight, lol. :-)

Thanksgiving!

I love Thanksgiving!  I love the family-togetherness, lovely meal, prayers, expressions of thankfulness, shopping, and that it's one step closer to Christmas!

Imagine trying to get young children excited about it (if you haven't had to do it already).  They're like "Woo-hoo.  We eat dinner everyday."  LOL!

Maybe I should start some new family traditions this year for this special day.  Thanksgiving isn't mandatory, but it is FUNdatory, lol!

I am so thankful for my family.  Each one is a special, unique, priceless gift.  I wouldn't trade any one of them for anything!  I am thankful for my house - my home - that no on can take away!  I am thankful for my stinky dog, even with her fleas, anxiety, and "other" problems.  LOL

I am NOT thankful for sports - football in particular.  I've said it before but I'll say it again - I hate football like Al Qaeda hates America!...  Well, if it brings joy to others I guess I can be tolerant....  Peace be to you, fans!  (P.S. College basketball is also of the devil!)

I wish I could give something more at this season, but sometimes you just have to receive and say, "Thanks!"

'O, Taste and See that the Lord is Good.'

I love the Lord.  I love the Bible.  It is so deep that every day you can dive in to it, and yet never touch the bottom!

I'm not a preachy person (I hope not), but to not share the goodness of God is truly a sin!

I think about my non-believing friends and family... some may have tried to serve the Lord before, but some have never even tried!  How can you know how it feels if you've never tried?...

I have tried living to self.  It's a dark, meaningless, empty, and guilt-ridden life.  I've never pretended to be something I'm not.  Maybe I should have and I wouldn't have gotten into some of the troubles I've been in!

Life is so complex, but there is one thing that's certain - death.  We are not immortal.  Atheism says there isn't an after-life.  Some religions believe in reincarnation (isn't this just more of the same?).  Still others believe in earthly rewards in heaven - people becoming gods for doing "good deeds" on earth (like killing and harassing people)! 

I believe we will be as children of God, like the angels, if we simply commit our hearts and lives to God through His Son - Jesus Christ.  This belief has been around since the beginning of recorded history, folks have tried to eradicate it, and yet it sill remains!

"Give 'peace' a chance?"  No, thanks; try Jesus! :-)

It's almost here! Come on, fall!!!

Yes, it's September!  And I can already feel it in the air - autumn is coming!  What a glorious time!  I don't know if I've ever heard anyone say, "I hate fall."  I'm sure some people do, but I love it!

The summer was fun, but with the long, hot days, and active children, it can be challenging.  I'm not sure I would want to live in a year-round warm climate.

I look forward to wearing jackets (fleece particularly), wearing jeans, and maybe a new pair of boots.  In having small children things are constantly new to them.  My girls remember playing in the leaves last year, but they look forward to finding pumpkins, wearing costumes, and eating candy!  I too look forward to these things.

Our county fair is coming soon too!  The kids in our school have off the last Friday of the fair and get unlimited rides with admission!  I can't wait to see their excited faces and find out what rides they can go on this year!

Our church has its own concession booth at the fair.  I was asked to work in it, but can't because of the girls' schedule.  I will be baking brownies and making whatever else is needed.

I know fall comes and goes quickly - it's like springs' quiet sister - but I will enjoy it for what it's worth.  And I hope it will be cool in temperature, despite the heat this summer!

Bring on the hayrides, amusement, and candy apples!  And maybe throw in some hot apple cider as well.

How does God feel about the poor?

As I was doing my daily Bible study for today I came across a part that stood out to me - "Thou, O God, hast prepared of thy goodness for the poor." (Psalm 68:10b)  It made me ponder the question of how God feels about those who are less fortunate.

I have thought about this often.  I, myself, am not rich monetarily.  I have never aspired to be rich, even as a child my only desire was to have a family and have my basic necessities met.  But what does God have to say about the issue....

Jesus said, "For ye have the poor with you always...."  (John 12:8)  It was said matter-of-factly.  He goes on to say, "and whensoever ye will ye may do them good."  Does this mean God prefers the poor?

The poor people I know vary... some are unwise with money, and some just can't help being poor.  But there is a stigma that comes with it.

I believe it is the duty of the one who has more to help the less fortunate.  What does that mean?  Should it be government-mandated?  This I don't know.

In life there seems to be more questions than answers.  But on this issue I want to share that God does have compassion on the poor and I think we should too.  I don't think those who squander their resources should be rewarded.  But who among us is perfect?...

God is so merciful, and for that we all should be thankful.  :-)

"A father of the fatherless, and a judge of the widows....

God setteth the solitary in families.  He bringeth out those which are bound with chains....

Thou, O God, hast prepared of thy goodness for the poor.

Thou hast ascended on high, thou hast led captivity captive: thou hast received gifts for men.

Blessed be the Lord, who daily loadeth us with benefits....

Blessed be God!"

(Psalm 68: 5a, 6a, 10b, 18a, 19a, 35c)

A look forward and back

I've had some really wonderful times in my life.  Some times I think I may not experience such things again.  Maybe I'm a little down right now... I'm trying to think of the things to look forward to.  Sometimes you have to make your own happy moments.


I get so tired sometimes, and really struggle to keep things together.  In those times I remember the rest that is promised to God's people.  I wonder when it will come....


My kids already tell me what they want to be when they grow up.  Just today it changed to Winnie saying she wants to be a dog groomer and Leighanna said she wants to work at a fair!  "A carnie!,"  I thought to myself.  I do think about their futures - what they will do, where they will go, who they may marry.  None of these things are under my control, but I can dream.


I told them today that they may grow up with some of the kids in their class, and may even marry one of the boys, lol!  The looks on their faces were priceless!  Right now they call boys "monsters"! 


I really want to be happy, but happiness is fleeting.  Having hope and joy in Christ is all that is worthwhile.


I'm trying to lose weight again.  It's such a long, involved process.  Sometimes it seems unfair to have to struggle so hard with weight.  People think you're ugly, lazy, less than human, and sometimes you feel that way about yourself.  It's definitely "stinking-thinking" and isn't encouraging to say the least.


So I'm still working on my "happily ever after".  I'm very thankful for what I have.  When I get tired of cleaning my floors I think of those who have no floors or dirt floors.  When it bothers me how overweight I am I can think of those who don't know when their next meal will be.  I suppose happiness is less circumstantial but perspective.  Let's hope.

News!

I am "taking pen in hand" to write.  Why?  I'm not better than anyone else, but because I like to write - it's cathartic - and because maybe I have something useful to say.

Speaking doesn't come easy to me - I've been labeled as "painfully shy" in the past.  But if you give me a pen and paper I've always been able to fill it up!

So what's going on with me/us right now?  My kids just started preschool.  It's a very exciting time right now, and scary at the same time.  I suppose everything that brings excitement has an element of fear.  It makes me think of the girls' first day of school.  As I was getting them ready they were nervously giggling... I myself have always done the same thing when I get nervous.  LOL.

I'm so proud of my children.  I am astonished at the things they do.  (I think every parent is.)  I look at them and can't believe they're "mine".

I wish I had the ability to send my children to a private, Christian school.  I know the training I received there still guides me to this day.  I pray that instead of being wrongfully influenced by the system there they will be a light to those around them.  I don't want my children to be preachy and judgmental, but to live honestly, peacefully, and kindly to EVERYONE.  I know that love wins more people to Christ than condemnation.

I've never been more aware of God being taken out of schools than now when my girls have started public school.  I mentioned to their teachers that another kid in their class goes to church with us.  The looks I got!  It was almost as if I had cursed!  To think that speaking of church in school is taboo is almost too difficult to understand.  But I digress....

The girls have almost finished their first full week of school and all is well.  I now have more time to do things I enjoy - including things like starting a blog. :-)